But honestly, as she's gotten older, I see myself doing things, saying things and implementing systems that I did when I was a public educator.
We've been doing lots of "learning time" lately (her idea, and I think she picked up the phrase from her friend at church?). I've posted a few times about it on Instagram stories, and a lot of you had questions about it. I also heard from some of you who are overwhelmed and don't know where to start, so I wanted to share what we've been doing to teach letter names and sounds.
1. Don't stress out about it
When I was a practicum student I remember talking to a kindergarten teacher who wishes she could tell all incoming parents to stop stressing out about their kids falling behind. She had this huge rant about not forcing your children to learn before they're ready, about just playing and reading to them, and about not wasting money on a fancy preschool or expensive learning program.
Some days my daughter asks for learning time from the moment she wakes up. But other days she's just not into it, so learning time lasts a total of four minutes. Today we didn't do it at all, opting for exercise videos and dance parties in the living room instead. My daughter is only two, so I don't force her and don't stress if she mixes up a few of the letters the day after I teach them.
2. Read read read
Seriously, all you have to do is read to your kids. I could link to a million scientific studies about all the good effects of parents reading to their children (it's a gigantic factor in student success, emotional maturity, social awareness, imagination, problem solving skills, and academic aptitude). Just. Read. To. Your. Kids.
3. Teach letters one at a time
So far, we've been learning letters at the rate of about two per week. I introduce the capital and lower-case letter at the same time. When I teach a new letter, we do a short mini-lesson and then a longer activity that reinforces the new letter. Her attention span is about 4 minutes for the lesson and 10-15 minutes for the activity.
4. The mini-lesson
I introduce the letter by drawing it on a paper. "This is the letter T. Can you say T? This is what a big T looks like. Point to the big T. This is what a little t looks like. Point to the little t. T says tuh. Tuh-tuh-tuh. Can you say that with me? Tuh-tuh-tuh."
We trace the letters with a marker. She is terrible at this, but hey, she's only two.
I teach 2-3 words that start with the letter. Tiger, tongue, uncle Taylor. We sing that super annoying but effective song. "T is for tiger, t-t-tiger.... T is for tongue, t-t-tongue."
We look through her board books and find books with the letter T on the cover.
And that's about it!
5. The enrichment activity
These are the easiest letter-learning activities on the planet. I'm not one for huge elaborate lessons or anything that takes any amount of prep work. Here are a few things we do:
- make the letter with play dough
- paint big letters on a new paper with our watercolors
- color a picture with the letter on it
- bend our bodies to make the shape of the letter (I tried this once and my toddler did NOT get it, but hey, maybe yours will)
- do our foam ABC puzzle (can't find an exact link, similar one here)
- make a word find with the letter and some random shapes. This is also a great way to sneak in a review of the old letters (see picture below)
- make our letter out of popsicle sticks
- put these foam letters in a 9x13 pan and cover them with dry beans or rice. Sort through with measuring cups and find your letter (another great way to review letters you learned earlier).
- go outside and draw letters with sidewalk chalk
- make your letter with masking tape on the floor so your child can jump from letter to letter. Another great one to review multiple letters ("Now jump to the S!") My toddler loooooves this one.
- Added by a reader: get a bag of small objects around the house that start with the letter. C-c-carrot, c-c-car, c-c-crayon, etc.
- Added by a reader: Draw a simple outline of the letter and use small circle stickers to fill it up (you can get packs of 100 neon price stickers at the dollar store).
Remember, toddlers learn through playing and exploring, so even though these don't seem like the most academically rigorous activities, the synapses in their brains are firing like crazy, I promise.
6. Teach the easy letters first
Rather than teaching from A to Z, I like to teach easy / often used letters first. Here's a list of the sets of letters from easiest to hardest (I dug out my old literacy textbook for this - you're welcome, world).
Set one: s a t i p n e
Set two: c k h r m d g o l
Set three: f b q u j z w v y x
It's fun to teach the first letter in your child's name too (C was the first letter my daughter learned, even though it's in set two, because her name starts with it).
7. An optional fun tie-in
We love the book Chicka Chicka Boom Boom, so I used it to tie all my letters in. I made a big coconut tree out of brown and green construction paper (I bought this pack two years ago and it's still going strong, plus it's on a major sale right now). Then I bought these die cut letters ($8 is kind of expensive for a few letters, but I don't own a die-cut machine, and now I have 190 extra letters to use for party banners, welcome home signs, and a million other things).
We hung up the tree in a previously dead space in the hallway, and my daughter gets SO excited to put up a new letter after she learns it.
8. Find your letters everywhere
Last week at the post office, my daughter suddenly said, "It's a A! It's a A!" And sure enough, right in the middle of the "LINE STARTS HERE" sign, there was an A. We find letters on the signs we see, at the grocery store, on the books we read, everywhere! We even find them in the hymnals at church on Sundays.
We also bought the Endless ABC app (buy the full version or don't get it at all), and it's SO annoying, but my toddler learned two new letters by herself from one week of using it. So, hey, just turn down the volume so you can't hear it from across the room and you're good. ;)
What do you do to teach letters to your toddler?
Other learning app suggestions?
I'm trying to make screen time more productive
and less weird egg videos on YouTube Kids.
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